Beginning boarding is a significant step, and at Anglican Church Grammar School (commonly known as Churchie), the experience is shaped by warmth, routine and genuine care.
Resident Master Troy Looms and Houseparent Bobby Looms (above) joined the school in early 2025 after many years working in boarding communities around the world. Their move to Churchie was driven by a desire to be closer to family and to support Year 7 boarders during one of the most important transitions of their school lives.
Troy believes firmly in creating an environment where boys feel safe to grow. Many of the boys are living away from home for the first time, so helping them feel settled quickly is essential. Troy says, “We create an environment where boys feel not just physically comfortable, but also emotionally supported and genuinely at home in their new boarding life.”
To build connections among the boys, Troy has introduced activities that encourage self-expression. These include sessions where they can share their goals, likes, dislikes and the people who inspire them.
“These activities are powerful because they allow the boys to learn about each other on a deeper level, fostering empathy and a sense of shared experience,” Troy says.
A nurturing presence in the house, Bobby focuses on building trust through meaningful daily interactions.
“My approach focuses on active presence and genuine connection, which are essential for helping the boys feel secure and open to sharing,” Bobby says. “A key strategy is to dedicate time to one-on-one conversations and to chat with each boy about their interests, family, hobbies and sports. It’s about showing them that we care about who they are beyond just being a boarder.”
Weekends provide another opportunity for connection. Whether the boys are on an organised outing or simply spending time together in the boarding house, Bobby says these shared experiences “create a relaxed environment where boys can build friendships and feel more at ease.” She pays close attention to small cues, explaining, “If a boy seems a bit quieter than usual, or if there’s a change in their routine, I’ll subtly check in.” Celebrating kindness and effort is equally important to her.
Together, Troy and Bobby see the boys’ growth as the most rewarding part of their role. “It’s incredibly fulfilling to see them arrive as somewhat shy or uncertain Year 7s and then watch them blossom into confident, well-rounded young men by the time they leave,” Bobby says. “Knowing you’ve played a part in shaping their character and preparing them for the next stage of their lives brings me so much joy.”
Families interested in learning more about Churchie Boarding can visit churchie.com.au/boarding, contact the admissions team at admissions@churchie.com.au, or call 07 3896 2200).
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